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Sunday, March 15, 2020

November 2k18: Everything Else


All right, time to bid farewell to November of 2018 via a random, long-winded recap. Will and Carma invite you to grab a rake...

and dive on in!


We got to host George and Kevin when they came up for the Boise State-BYU game. Love these two rival cousins:

George and his commitment to the Blue proved superior, and Boise State won!

We fit in a bit of Nerf while they were here:

Carma's poses haha.

Election Day caption via instagram: Early voted a couple weeks ago because I’m workin’ the poll book again today- so come see me if you vote in this precinct! Otherwise, go see your election workers! I’d come up with some witty, poignant wisdom about voting but I gotta get in there soooo just vote y’all!! 🙏🏻😘✌🏼

Jack and Carma are both snugglers. Chuck and I are not. I love when these two snuggle together and leave me the heck out of it haha.

The aforementioned BYU-Boise State game was a late one and this wee Cougar fan did his best to stay up and watch... probably better he wasn't awake to see the outcome ;).

Instagram caption: Never let it be said that Chuck and I don’t support our kids on whatever path life takes them... even being BYU fans 😑✖️4️⃣. Full disclosure: I mostly just love reasons to go to DI more often, aka where all of this paraphernalia was purchased 🛒🛍♻️💳🤩😂

 Speaking of DI purchases, here is what Chuck is buying while I'm grabbing books and clothes.... NERF:

Current collection, cultivated over the last... two years? I think?  

Remember the whole thing from a couple years ago about getting guys to take pictures of their wives with the kids more often and all that? Apparently the trick is to read scriptures with your daughter after she's gone full glam/clown on make-up, because Chuck snapped this picture completely unprompted.

As someone who has watched Chuck strap down a million truckloads of items, this about killed me ahahahahaha.

Random selfie,... I think at the end of Election Day? It was intense this go-round but still really awesome!

This. This is how Jack stays alive. He can try our patience LIKE NO OTHER and the next second be as sweet and darling as can be - like completely on his own taking a moment to pray over his Costco cheese pizza before eating it. I don't know how we ended up with this boy but I'm so glad we did!

 Game night... Clue... super photogenic family... 

Super long caption via instagram:  At the beginning of this month I hit three years of doing plasma 💉 and to mark the occasion I got a sweet hematoma so I’m currently deferred 😅. It’s all good, 99% sure I would have failed my SPE test so this is just extra time to protein load 🥜🥩😋. Doing plasma kind of has a weird stigma and since I take my role as a social media oversharer prettttty seriously, here’s my spiel:
😩 Yes, it hurts
😃 .... but not that much
💵 Base payments at BioLife are $20 for your first donation of the week, $50 for the second
💰 There are usually bonuses every month, sometimes a couple
🗓 The week runs Mon-Sun. You can only donate two times within a seven day period and there must be one day in between... so pick your days and stick with them. We’re Monday/Friday folks.
🤒 You have to pass a medical history and physical before you donate for the first time and then each time you donate, your vitals are taken to make sure you and your plasma are healthy that day
💊 There are quite a few medications and conditions that prevent you from being able to donate plasma. You can read through all that info on the BioLife website
👩🏽‍⚕️ Staff at the Nampa center are, in general, the coolest. Really awesome phlebotomists - this was only my second ever hematoma, and I’ve only had two seconds (aka needed a second stick in my other arm). Chuck and I make way cool friends there 😘
💦 I make sure and go super hydrated and protein loaded to minimize the chances of having a reaction. I have no interest in passing out there 👀😴
🕘 Usually you’re in and out of there in about an hour, but busier times of the day mean longer waits. Some people take out their impatience on the phlebotomists. Don’t be one of those people.
👧🏻 Most BioLife centers have a playroom where your kids can be supervised while you donate. We’ve had overall excellent experiences there.
😑 Yes, there are some sketchy looking donors there (ie me and chuck 😂) but for the most part, it’s regular, nice, clean people who are looking for a chill way to boost their income. We’ve run into tons of people we know there 👋🏼
💪🏼 The end ... unless you have questions 🙋🏻‍♀️


Our stake president is the best at teaching and modeling the importance of gratitude; he often shares his experiences of sending thank you cards and encourages us all to do the same. This sweet, simple thank you card meant so much to us after Chuck put in so much time on that activity.

Chuck found this shirt for me at a DI on our trip and I had to text a picture to my brothers to make them jealous.  

I love Jack:

Had to document a Sunday afternoon where Jack and Clyde were actually getting along!!

 Hahaha my grandma Carma used to carry her purse around her neck sometimes so she could carry other things... looks like this Carma is as resourceful!!

Chuck tagged along for Pokemon club at the Boise Library one afternoon - wish it was closer to us; the kids love it! 

Jack loved playing basketball against Mr. Johnson's son in one game!
Clyde had friends over during Thanksgiving break for another Nerf battle/board game afternoon.

Ahhh I love these kids.

Happy birthday to Chuck! Movie all together to celebrate the birthday boy who eschews attention on his special day haha. 

Andy and Carma are such cute reading buddies:

 Carma is also darling when she throws a fit haha.

 Plasma with Carma - she and Jack love to put the stickers over one eye to become pirates haha.
Ahhhhh total fangirl moment. One of my FAVORITE authors ever, Sarah Eden, announced a book signing in Boise over Thanksgiving weekend and I was so so excited to go. This is the ... third? time I've met her and had her sign books and I get so embarrassingly flustered every time.  

Totally worth the wait and I died laughing when Sarah's sister flipped the camera around and got this awesome selfie on my phone haha. 

One of our big takeaways from our Utah trip was a decision about the kids' bedrooms. Jack and Will have been struggling sharing with each other, and Carma and Clyde have each had their own rooms. Chuck and I made it a focus of our trip as we talked about different possibilities and prayed about it as we went to the temples in Utah. Chuck received a prompting to think about putting all three boys in one room, Carma still alone, and turn the third room into a common space for our books and piano. Initially I thought he was crazy, but as we discussed it more I really grew to like the idea. A lot of the conflict occurs when they want their own space, but this allows more areas of the house to be used more throughout the day. We decided to give it a try and were SO surprised when the kids all agreed to it immediately. We thought Clyde would really struggle not having his own room any more, but he was really on board with it. We got home and started the moving around process and LOVE it. So far it's been such a perfect change in our house and I'm so thankful that Heavenly Father cares about what we care about and that He's so much smarter and more creative than we are without his ideas and guidance.

On a related note, I've always loved clouds that are backlit by the sun. I've shared it with my kids - that every time I see a view like this I remember how real Heavenly Father is and I look at it as a tender mercy that he's reaching out. It's been really neat to hear my kids point them out and then we take a minute to ponder and appreciate how close heaven really is.

Sunday, March 8, 2020

November 2k18: No Kids Jaunt to Utah


mid-November = time for Chuck and me to ditch our kids with Grandma Pam and hit the open road! This trip was especially looked forward to because it's what got us through the slight craziness of Chuck heading up the Thanksgiving feast at the church the Saturday prior.
Carma was less than thrilled with the plan this go-round. My mom tried explaining that we were just going on a date... a multi-day date... to make up for the weekly dates we should be going on but aren't. Carma cried a lot and said from now on we have to go on more dates that are shorter haha.

Luckily Grandma Pam is amazing and had Carma June distracted and happy in no time, in part thanks to this list they started:

Also Grandma Pam got to go to assemblies at the elementary school two days in a row! First to watch cute Will be part of the color guard at an assembly honoring Veterans' Day...

and then to see Jack receive an award for being exemplary at the character trait of the month:

Other cute pictures of Carma - she clearly did juuuuust fine without us:

And as always, the boys rallied and adapted to our absence just fine. Grandma introducing them to the Pokemon club at the Boise Library helped quite a bit!


Chuck and I started our voyage with a trip to the car wash, because we're old and heading out in a clean car brings us joy:

Our first destination was Hyrum, Utah and we showed up for dinner and then nonchalantly asked if we could stay the night too, because we're classy like that ;). Shelly fed us delicious food and the boys kept us so entertained and we drank milk out of boxes and it was the best visit ever. We didn't end up having time to check out the Pepperidge Farm factory/outlet so Shelly gave us some Milanos for the road. She's the best.

It just made sense to choose Logan as one of our temples for this trip, and Shelly let us crash her weekly trip there that morning:

It was beautiful and SO busy and lovely. 

We ate lunch in the cafeteria there and it was heavenly. Chicken cordon bleu and (Idaho!) mashed potatoes? Take me back.
I'm so grateful that thanks to so much maturity and sacrifice and love and compassion showed by parties involved, Chuck and I never had to choose between Dan and Shelly. It would have been impossible. I love that they're still a family that our family loves and gets to spend time with and be blessed by their friendship. 

From Logan we headed south and FINALLY stopped in Brigham City. Pretty much every time we drive to Kaysville... or Lehi... or Provo... or Salt Lake... we look wistfully out the window and tell ourselves that sometime we'll go off the beaten path a bit and check out Brigham City. And today was the day! The temple was so sweet and not busy AT ALL... 
... leading to a lot of excitement when we walked in haha. Per my instagram caption: "Highlights of the Brigham City Temple were getting to do sealings with my hot husband 👨🏻👀😘 and also EVERyONE there being SO excited to welcome us. It’s a smaller temple and a little off the beaten path, so they were thrilled that we found our way there and Chuck and I felt immense guilt every time we had to shake our heads no when someone asked if we knew so-and-so in Nampa/Boise/Meridian 😬😂. Finally I was able to honestly say I had seen the trucks of a certain plumbing company (owned by a daughter-in-law’s father 🧐) and a sweet old man beamed ☺️😅."

Quinn and Eden hosted us that night because they're awesome.

Which meant we got to see these darling goofs in the morning before we headed out. We loooove them!

Our next adventure was visiting Nicole... who randomly builds houses in her free time NO BIG DEAL. I've followed along with the progress via Marco Polo and a couple in person visits and Chuck and I decided it was time to actually put in some sweat equity, so we showed up and painted! Aka Chuck painted a lot and I painted a bit and tried not to mess anything up. Then we went to eat and say good-bye and Chuck got these swell candids haha:
Nicole is just the coolest. She's such a doer - she sees problems or difficulties and just rolls her sleeves up and jumps in. She has a vision and she learns and experiments until her vision is fulfilled. Being around her is so empowering because she's has so much confidence in the people she loves. Like, I walk away from here thinking I can do anything... and then I remember my habit of prioritizing naps and reading books over actual exertion and effort haha. 

Our travels next took us a bit back north and eventually meeting for dessert with Chuck's sisters and assorted family members! 

We crashed in Kays that night which let us see these two darling girls off to school in the morning...

and then we commenced our (very slow) journey home. I don't even remember how many D.I.s we made it to this trip overall... but it was a lot haha. Pretty grateful for my best friend who likes to road trip with me and talk about whatever for five hours and lets me blast my music and loves hitting up thrift stores almost as much as I do.
 And thus concludes another pretty amazing 72 hour date... still not feeling super motivated to give up these trips in favor of weekly outings haha - don't tell Carma!


November 2k18: Thanksgiving


It wasn't all that difficult to convince the Lindsays to join the traditional Thanksgiving morning bike ride to secure a newspaper:


Food prep! We ate at Lee and Aleesha's and it was pretty epic.

In lieu of a Turkey Bowl, Chuck volunteered to host a Nerf Battle for anyone in the ward or other family and friends. Here's most of the group:

Fun new tradition when I take the group pictures - as soon as I get a good one everyone gets to shoot me haha.

Cunninghams are the best. That's all.




I love watching people get paired up on teams and then bond so quickly to survive haha.



Love all these fun people!

And the 2018 Izatt Family Thanksgiving Tree, slightly neglected this year but still there:

I'm not all about the Thanksgiving food, but I'm all for a day with family and friends and naps!