So while Chuck was off traipsing about in the mountains last month, the little boys and I opted to get out of town and head south. My mom had also been pondering a visit to Utah, so she hopped in the car with us and away we went. It was a really nice trip, simultaneously very relaxing and extremely exhausting (let's just say I have more empathy for homeless people who have to sleep in their cars because I did it two different nights on the trip . . . but we'll get back to that).
We started in Provo to visit Quinn and Eden for a couple of days. Sam and Terri and Bailey came down from Salt Lake and we headed to Provo Canyon for a picnic dinner.
Will has had trouble sleeping on occasion and about once a month wakes up crying and completely inconsolable. It isn't a night terror, thank the heavens, just a really vocally sad baby who wants me, then doesn't want me, then wants a movie, but does NOT want a movie, etc. It had happened the night before we drove to Utah, so I was extra distraught that the previously rare occurrence was repeating itself just two nights later. I ended up sticking him in the car and we listened to Primary music and I hooked myself up with a hot chocolate (love 24 hour McDonald's drive-thru!). Will fell asleep in the car and woke up quite angry when I attempted to take him into the apartment, so he and I slept in the car the rest of the night - which luckily was only about three more hours. (Also, no worries, we were in a well-lit parking lot of an apartment building about thirty feet from Quinn and Eden's front door and the car was locked and my drooling self could not have looked that tantalizing to passers-by with less than honorable intentions).
After breakfast and a quick tour of Quinn and Eden's new apartment, we went to visit Sam and Terri for the afternoon.
Then the little boys and I headed to visit the Littlewoods!
Unfortunately, that night Will was up again, this time around 2:30am. And his crying woke up Clyde, who was grumpy, and Lynndi, who was (as always) incredibly sweet and understanding. Still after a half-hour of crying with no end in sight, I opted to toss (well, you know, buckle) both kids in the car. We stuck the Primary CD in and drove and drove and the boys fiiiinally fell asleep. This time I didn't even attempt to move back inside, I just parked in their driveway, reclined my seat, and got comfortable.
Following this adventure, google and I spend some serious time together and I discovered that children with autism don't release melatonin (aka the sleep hormone) appropriately. I had heard of giving children with sleep issues very small doses of melatonin before bed but I hadn't looked into it until now. So I got the go-ahead from our pediatrician and did some more reading and then picked some up that day and we've used it regularly since. Will still has sleep issues (some nights he's up until the wee, wee hours of the morning) but we haven't had any more inconsolable crying episodes, praise the heavens.
So our morning with Littlewoods was extra low-key since we were all pretty tired and I was learning all about melatonin, but it was so great for the kids to see each other and for Lynndi and I to talk in person instead of on the phone!!
Our trip ended in Kays, where I got to meet this darling baby:

That night we stayed with the lovely and always hospitable Smiths. Gloria made enchiladas for dinner, which despite being comprised of two food items that I've admittedly struggled with during my pregnancy (chicken and tortillas), were delicious and I keep forgetting to clarify that to her :). Of course, I'm of the opinion that Gloria could cook a meal made entirely of my least favorite foods and I would still ask for seconds. She's that good.
And then it was time to head back to Idaho!
2 comments:
That sounds like a full and fun trip! Kudos to you for doing it all while pregnant! I'm sorry about the sleep problems...no fun at all! You are such a good mom :) The boys are lucky to have you!
looks like a fun trip! i love going to visit family!!! that picture of the kids on the stairs is ADORABLE!!
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